One Year
13 States that we've “lived” in
25 States that we've
visited
22 Campgrounds
22,388 Miles on the
Truck
5,566 Miles on the
RV
7,877 Miles on the
Motorcycle
2 new air conditioners, 2 punctured tires, 1 new windshield, 3 New Motorcycle tires
1 evening in a shelter for a tornado warning
0 items broken in the RV
during travel (Hoping we don't jinx ourselves by mentioning that)
And.....11,073 Pictures taken. (Thank God we don’t have to pay for film anymore.)
Trips to
Walmart - 44
Subway -
11
Advanced Auto Parts - 8
Bass Pro Shops - 8
Harbor Freight - 8
6 different club memberships to various supermarkets
Bars visited? We'll leave that to your imagination
201 geocaches, 6 shooting ranges, 13 high points climbed, tons of museums, historic sites, National & State Parks, Natural Wonders and countless small towns, festivals, fairs, concerts and rodeos.
We have seen thousands of head of cattle, hundreds of deer,
antelope, elk and buffalo, a few Moose and one cow in the middle of the
interstate.
Friends we’ve met – Sheryl&Jeff – who gave us the
courage to go on that very first week; Daryll - who rescued us on the side of the road when our motorcycle tire got punctured; Kim&Christie – who we only knew for
a few days, but trusted everything to while we went away; Lon&Barb- our
first “repeats” who we have seen in more than one place; John&Veoletta-who
made us feel so at home in their campground and who were from upstate NY, so
they totally understood us; Phil&Jackie, Jennifer&Brad, Bonnie&Scott, Gary&Kathy, Wilf&Joyce and Mike, our first official dinner guest in our RV. And that doesn't even begin to cover all the kind and genuine people who have shared their experiences with us, or been so interested in our journey or just wanted to talk and hang out and have fun with us.
The most common questions we are asked by strangers:
Where did you get
that swivel wheel trailer? How does that
trailer work? Where can I get one of those
trailers? We knew our trailer was unique
when we bought it, but I can honestly say we have not been in one campground
that someone hasn’t come up to ask Cliff about it. We are asked in rest stops all of the time,
and have even had people slow down on the highway to take a picture of it. I think it’s time we become official reps for
the company.
Our biggest surprise about being on the road?
We never expected to use our truck as much as we do. It is much bigger than anything we have ever
had and it can be tough to negotiate on narrow roads and parking lots. But we find that New York is different from
other states because they pave most of their roads. I can’t tell you how many surprises we have
had on the motorcycle where a perfectly fine, normal road all of the sudden becomes
dirt and gravel and takes the fun out of it.
Cliff has learned that his new best friend is Google Earth, where he can
check out the conditions of the roads before we decide what vehicle to take. He has also become the king of parking a
long-bed, extended cab dually.
Our biggest challenge on the road?
We both agreed immediately that the answer to this one is
easy. The Weather. I guess when you live in an area your whole
life, you don’t realize how much the weather varies around the country. I think the biggest surprise is the
wind. The scariest moments we’ve had as
far as weather goes, is sitting listening to the wind howling outside. In the beginning, it took me several nights
of wind to convince myself that the RV wasn’t going to blow over (don’t laugh). Since then we have sat many nights with the
TV turned up loud, hoping to drown it out, or even a couple of nights where we
pulled in our slideouts to protect them.
We have even changed travel plans because the wind was too much. We have also learned that we can’t predict
the weather, and no matter how many weather sites you look at, you will always
get a different answer. We have been in
some pretty hefty rain storms, been covered in ice and hit some pretty hot
temperatures. When we first started out,
the first question of each day would be “What should we do today”, but we
discovered quickly that the first question we need the answer to is “What does today’s weather look
like?”
And finally…our most frequently asked question from friends.
Do you miss Home?
This is a difficult question and not easy to answer. It all depends on what you consider “home”. We lived in our home for 26 years, raised
both of our kids there and made the majority of our lifetime memories
there. It was filled with love, and life
and good times. But once the kids left,
it was different and I knew it would never go back to the days of little feet,
and waiting for school busses, and family “fun” nights. It absolutely amazed me how quickly this
little 384 sq. ft house became our home. It truly is who and what you surround
yourself with that makes a structure feel like a home to you, and after only a
year, I feel like this has been our home for ages. We have our “comfy” chairs to sit in, when we
can’t find something, we know it can’t be far, and most importantly, however we spend the day, we spend it together. When we first downsized we used to say "This is all we've got" now we say "Look at everything we have". Subtle differences can be enormous.
So, as far as the house goes, we don’t miss the
maintenance that goes along with an aging house, or the yard work or the upkeep,
and while we do miss the memories, we are enjoying and looking forward to making new memories in
our little house and in our kid’s own homes.
We certainly miss the
people we left behind. As often happens, it wasn’t until we were leaving that we truly
realized how lucky we are to have the people in our lives that we do, and we
are forever grateful for modern technology that have kept those friendships
going, perhaps even making them stronger.
But here’s what we
really have discovered. When you call one place
your home for a long time, that
instinctively becomes what you compare everything else in the world to. When we say “it’s hot here” our brain is
really saying “it’s hotter here than in NY”;
Texas and New Mexico were “dry” because they didn’t have the lakes and
streams that we are so used to; and Iowa was “beautiful” because it was green
and hilly and reminded us of where we grew up.
Our definitions of how things should be are embedded in our brains and
that is where we make our comparisons.
So, while we certainly do miss the past, and sometimes think things should be more like
NY, it’s the discovery of how different things are that make being on the road
so much fun. This “road trip” is
something we worked all of our lives for.
In reality, the United States is our home and we are just now getting to
realize how awesome it is to be able to say that.
And how are we going to celebrate our first
anniversary?
We are going to look at the
thousands of pictures Cliff has taken, listen to all of the music that has made
us smile thru the past year, enjoy the fact that we love being together and appreciate
that that hasn’t wavered for a moment. Then tonight we are going to drink champagne,
eat Subway sandwiches and watch Lucille Ball's “The Long, Long, Long Trailer” –
the same thing we did a year ago..and we are going to celebrate, and laugh, and probably cry a
little and remember and be grateful for each other and for such an incredible
year.
Then we will get up tomorrow and see what Missouri has to
offer.